I just read all 3 pages of posts, and a short followup is needed... Cytherea and Brian both went public stating that *SHE* left him for another guy. She changed her hairstyle and looked 1000% better (AND not tweaking etc) than ever on (ok flame me again for saying it) KSEX. They both did interviews, 2 weeks apart, on the subject of her leaving him.
While people might know it, it wasn't posted in this thread so who knows.