2) Have you told Steve before now? "Hey man, blah blah blah." usually gets a response.
I've mentioned a few things to him before mostly on the forum (none in pm's I think), nothing as detailed as what I posted above.
And unless there is something in their TOS that prohibits adult based sites, why isn't there a link to buy things at Amazon? I must make a few purchases from them a month and can't be the only person here who does.