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Porn Stars as Friends
Posted by Artemusgordon , 6/26/2007 9:35:12 PM [Artemusgordon has 14 reviews]

Hey guys! (And especially the ladies!) I have a question for you: can you be FRIENDS with a porn star without emotions getting in the way and causing problems down the road? Here's my story. A couple of weeks ago I had a session set up with a popular porn star that I had been with twice before and both times had a GREAT time with. I haven't seen her in several months but have made it a point to keep in touch with her thru emails and an occasional phone call. I always received very pleasent responses. Anyway, the date was set. The traffic that day was HORRIBLE, so I called her about 10 minutes before the hour to tell her that I was probably going to be a good 20-30 minutes late and that I hoped that she was running a little late as well and that I would call her as soon as I got to the hotel to get the room number. I got there 30 minutes late and called her immediately. No answer. I stayed in the hotel for the next 2 HOURS and called her SEVERAL times. Never got a response to ANY of my calls. Finally I went home. Over the next 4 days I sent her several emails and phone calls. Still no response. At this point I had no idea if she EVER was in that hotel that day and was convinced that she had flaked on ME, and more importantly, was starting to get worried that something bad had happened to her. Finally on Tues. I called her yet again and told her that I was THINKING about possibly writing a negative review on her on TER (remember, at this point she still hadn't responded to any of my emails or calls and I was sure she had flaked on me.) Well FINALLY I DID get a response from her saying that I was late that day and the guy before me wanted to extend his time, so she took it, and she wasn't happy that I "threatened" her that I was going to write a bad review on TER. Well, I never was going to write a bad review of her; I only said that because I was trying ANYTHING I could to get her to respond to me and again, I STILL thought she had flaked on me! If only she had responded to ONE of the MANY emails I sent and told me what had happened, I would never had said I was going to write a bad review on her! I then called her AND sent another long email apologizing to her, taking FULL blame for what had happened (even though I don't think I was 100% at fault)and asking her to PLEASE call me so we could straighten this thing out. To this day, no response. I absolutely CANNOT, CANNOT understand WHY this girl REFUSES to accept any of my apologys or return any of my emails or calls! It's like she WANTS to keep things exactly like they are now! Can you guys tell me what I did that was SO, SO, SO terrible?
But here's the bigger picture in all this, guys, and why I posted this question. I've asked myself a million times WHY this is bothering me so much, and I've come to the realization that it's because I foolishly let myself believe that we were FRIENDS, and because of that, I was hurt by her in the same way as ANYONE would feel if a friend of theirs wouldn't return any of their calls or want to straighten a problem out. And I'm not blaming HER. I'm sure that she NEVER considered ME as HER friend; it's just that I stupidly let FEELINGS mix in with this hobby, and I will NEVER let that happen again.
So guys, has anything like this ever happened to you? Do you consider any of the women that you've been with your FRIENDS, and if so, has it ever come back to bite you in the ass? And LADIES, do you WANT a man that you've been with to try to become a FRIEND of yours, or do you want to keep it strictly business? I'd really like to know what everyone on this board thinks about this. You too Fast Eddie because I know that you are friends with a lot of these women!) Thanks!

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FRIENDS GREAT HORRIBLE 2 HOURS SEVERAL ANY EVER ME, THINKING FINALLY I DID ANYTHING STILL ONE MANY AND FULL PLEASE CANNOT, CANNOT WHY REFUSES WANTS SO, SO, SO terrible?

WHY FRIENDS, ANYONE HER. NEVER ME HER FEELINGS NEVER.

FRIENDS, LADIES, WANT FRIEND.

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Porn Stars as Friends
Posted by Artemusgordon , 6/26/2007 9:35:12 PM [Artemusgordon has 14 reviews]

Hey guys! (And especially the ladies!) I have a question for you: can you be FRIENDS with a porn star without emotions getting in the way and causing problems down the road? Here's my story. A couple of weeks ago I had a session set up with a popular porn star that I had been with twice before and both times had a GREAT time with. I haven't seen her in several months but have made it a point to keep in touch with her thru emails and an occasional phone call. I always received very pleasent responses. Anyway, the date was set. The traffic that day was HORRIBLE, so I called her about 10 minutes before the hour to tell her that I was probably going to be a good 20-30 minutes late and that I hoped that she was running a little late as well and that I would call her as soon as I got to the hotel to get the room number. I got there 30 minutes late and called her immediately. No answer. I stayed in the hotel for the next 2 HOURS and called her SEVERAL times. Never got a response to ANY of my calls. Finally I went home. Over the next 4 days I sent her several emails and phone calls. Still no response. At this point I had no idea if she EVER was in that hotel that day and was convinced that she had flaked on ME, and more importantly, was starting to get worried that something bad had happened to her. Finally on Tues. I called her yet again and told her that I was THINKING about possibly writing a negative review on her on TER (remember, at this point she still hadn't responded to any of my emails or calls and I was sure she had flaked on me.) Well FINALLY I DID get a response from her saying that I was late that day and the guy before me wanted to extend his time, so she took it, and she wasn't happy that I "threatened" her that I was going to write a bad review on TER. Well, I never was going to write a bad review of her; I only said that because I was trying ANYTHING I could to get her to respond to me and again, I STILL thought she had flaked on me! If only she had responded to ONE of the MANY emails I sent and told me what had happened, I would never had said I was going to write a bad review on her! I then called her AND sent another long email apologizing to her, taking FULL blame for what had happened (even though I don't think I was 100% at fault)and asking her to PLEASE call me so we could straighten this thing out. To this day, no response. I absolutely CANNOT, CANNOT understand WHY this girl REFUSES to accept any of my apologys or return any of my emails or calls! It's like she WANTS to keep things exactly like they are now! Can you guys tell me what I did that was SO, SO, SO terrible?
But here's the bigger picture in all this, guys, and why I posted this question. I've asked myself a million times WHY this is bothering me so much, and I've come to the realization that it's because I foolishly let myself believe that we were FRIENDS, and because of that, I was hurt by her in the same way as ANYONE would feel if a friend of theirs wouldn't return any of their calls or want to straighten a problem out. And I'm not blaming HER. I'm sure that she NEVER considered ME as HER friend; it's just that I stupidly let FEELINGS mix in with this hobby, and I will NEVER let that happen again.
So guys, has anything like this ever happened to you? Do you consider any of the women that you've been with your FRIENDS, and if so, has it ever come back to bite you in the ass? And LADIES, do you WANT a man that you've been with to try to become a FRIEND of yours, or do you want to keep it strictly business? I'd really like to know what everyone on this board thinks about this. You too Fast Eddie because I know that you are friends with a lot of these women!) Thanks!

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Fan Boy/Stalker needs to get over it. Jeeezzzzz. Find another whore boy.

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The Shit List is about porn, not hookers or prostitution.

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Well FINALLY I DID get a response from her saying that I was late that day and the guy before me wanted to extend his time, so she took it, and she wasn't happy that I "threatened" her that I was going to write a bad review on TER. Well, I never was going to write a bad review of her; I only said that because I was trying ANYTHING I could to get her to respond to me and again, I STILL thought she had flaked on me! If only she had responded to ONE of the MANY emails I sent and told me what had happened, I would never had said I was going to write a bad review on her! I then called her AND sent another long email apologizing to her, taking FULL blame for what had happened (even though I don't think I was 100% at fault)and asking her to PLEASE call me so we could straighten this thing out. To this day, no response. I absolutely CANNOT, CANNOT understand WHY this girl REFUSES to accept any of my apologys or return any of my emails or calls! It's like she WANTS to keep things exactly like they are now! Can you guys tell me what I did that was SO, SO, SO terrible?

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Freaking out and sending her dozens of emails over a missed outcall appointment and this guy can't figure out what he's doing wrong

This fucking guy is pathetic!

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Reading a post like this, I prefer to seek out the code hidden in all the capitalized words. It seems to make about as much sense, and is more entertaining:

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FRIENDS GREAT HORRIBLE 2 HOURS SEVERAL ANY EVER ME, THINKING FINALLY I DID ANYTHING STILL ONE MANY AND FULL PLEASE CANNOT, CANNOT WHY REFUSES WANTS SO, SO, SO terrible?

WHY FRIENDS, ANYONE HER. NEVER ME HER FEELINGS NEVER.

FRIENDS, LADIES, WANT FRIEND.

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Well FINALLY I DID get a response from her saying that I was late that day and the guy before me wanted to extend his time,...

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ewwwwwwwww! i hope he wasn't talking about hailey-i-don't-shower-for-five-hours-after-the-guy-before-young...